Therapy for High Achievers

For Professionals Who Are Tired of Running on Empty in Bellevue and throughout Washington State

You’ve done everything you’re supposed to—got good grades that led to a good job that led to a stable life that looks very successful. But you’re not sure what comes next. Are you supposed to live this day on repeat: work, eat, chill, sleep… forever?

Many of our clients have followed this trajectory. They know how to work hard, make deadlines, sacrifice their personal lives, and exceed expectations. But then they start to question whether their aim is really to climb the career ladder and follow all the traditional markers of success, especially when it doesn’t seem to feel very fulfilling. 

That brings up an unsettling set of questions: who am I if I choose not to be defined by achievement? Will I fail if I stop pushing myself so hard? What do I even want in my life?

You’re doing all the things you’re supposed to but it feels like it’s on autopilot. When you think about what you want to do during an open block of time, you can only think about what you should do or what’s expected of you. 

You’ve performed so well, it feels impossible to maintain. You worry that if you slow down, make a mistake, or show vulnerability, people will see that you're not actually as capable as they think. Others might call it imposter syndrome, but they don’t know it’s real for you. 

There are so many things you’re trying to work on and optimize that rest feels impossible or guilt-inducing. When there’s a lull, your mind fills with all the things you could or should be doing. Relaxation feels irresponsible, even though you're exhausted.

You’ve fostered friendships but they feel superficial. Meaningful connection is rare because it’s hard to see people often and for long enough to get into deeper conversations. Maybe your time is so limited that you have to try to hang out in groups to be more efficient with your social time.

Even though you get good reviews and people say you’re doing great, your performance never feels good enough. It feels like you have to keep looking ahead at the next goal, the next potential failure, the gap between where you are and where you "should" be.

Your body is sending signals of stress even though nothing’s changed. You’re getting more tension headaches, digestive issues, insomnia, or a racing heart for no reason. Your body feels tight, and no amount of stretching or massage seems to loosen it.

Do you make a change?

If these feel familiar, you're not experiencing a character flaw. You're experiencing the natural consequence of prioritizing achievement over everything else—including your own wellbeing and authentic sense of self.

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How can therapy help high-achievers with career burnout, perfectionism, and imposter syndrome?

The answer isn’t the common pieces of advice: schedule more things for yourself, take a deep breath, and think about how your worries aren’t realistic. There’s a place for these strategies and they are helpful, but they’re often not enough.

The problem isn't usually that you don't know how to relax or set boundaries. It's that part of you believes you can't afford to. That your value depends on your output. That vulnerability equals weakness. That slowing down means falling behind.

Real change requires something different.

Change your relationship with yourself.

Our approach isn’t to mold you into some “ideal” human who has the best work-life balance, the most connected relationships, and the clearest life goals. That would just be another accomplishment defined by others that you strive for, not to mention unrealistic.

What we do is help you get comfortable with the person that you already are. We work collaboratively—you bring your expertise in your own life, and we bring our expertise in helping people shift deep patterns.

  • We want to increase the range of what is “okay” because so often, people feel stuck from believing their options are quite limited.

    Therapy is a space where we can practice expanding those options. We call out pretense and being a “good client” and ask for the messy, emotional, doubting version of yourself you might try to hide. It’s often one of the first places where clients get to practice letting down their guard.

  • Not what should matter, or what would impress others, but what would make your life feel meaningful, with decisions you can stand behind. There are a lot of great possible values and traits, but you can only pursue a few in earnest. We want to identify your top priorities.

  • Anxiety, uncertainty, imperfection—these aren't problems to eliminate. They’re unavoidable, messy parts of life. The less that they control your behavior, the more agency you have.

  • You’re likely a great problem-solver, good at identifying a problem and taking action to resolve it. But this strategy isn’t as effective when you feel like the problem and “fixing” things makes you feel worse.

  • This isn’t about scheduling different things. It’s about seeing what effect different behaviors have on you. Maybe it’s trying to respond to yourself a different way, or shifting your routine to accommodate your natural rhythms.

We’ll help you to:

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Moving Forward with Purpose

The best version of yourself isn't the only one worth having. In fact, chasing that idealized version might be what's standing between you and the life you actually want.

This work is hard. It means examining beliefs you might have held your whole life. It means trying new behaviors that feel counterintuitive or scary. But it also opens up the possibility of a life that feels sustainable, authentic, and genuinely yours.

You don't have to figure this out alone. And you don't have to wait until you're completely burned out to get support. Let's re-invest your energy into what truly matters to you.

Ready to Explore a Different Way?

If you’re tired of running on empty and ready to create a more balanced, sustainable way of living, we’d be honored to work with you. Together we’ll work toward a life where achievement still matters—but it no longer defines your worth or dictates your every move.

Schedule a free 15-minute consultation with Dr. Faraha Hasan or Dr. Diana Hu, licensed psychologists in Bellevue, WA, specializing in working with high-achieving professionals.

Serving clients in Bellevue, Seattle, and throughout Washington State via telehealth.

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